The 1:1 program that melts through the ways YOU learned to self-limit so you can grow your biz and income to your heart’s content, like it’s not that big a deal (although it totally is).
If “in theory” you know you’ve got the skills, vision, and drive to run a business that makes mega bank, naturally steels customers from competitors, and enthrals your peeps fo life— but your brain feels like someone spilled o.j. on a keyboard when it comes to executing that vision, girl I SEE you.
You’re doing what you’re best at. You love it, and the clients you have love it too. It makes sense for your biz to take off. You want this. But instead of being supported by your business, scaling what you’ve got, and seeing the money steadily roll in, you’re crushed underneath it, piecemealing pitches and offers, and (often literally 💩 🚽🏃🏽♀️) losing your shit wondering when it’s finally gonna REALLY click.
You’re doing everything you can think of, as often and as well as you can to make it to steady 6+ figures but results don’t match your efforts.
Grit? Check. Hard work? Check. A killer offer? Check. Instagram? Check. Podcast? Check. A funnel? CHECK.
WHAT.EFFIN.GIVES?
Taking YOUR business to its next level probably isn’t a matter of working more, pushing more, or strategising more but of UNLOCKING the version of you who can actually implement strategy both confidently + consistently, and create the results you want (like it’s math, not magic).
That’s where this work comes in.
This isn’t traditional business coaching.
It’s DEEP transformational work that goes to the core of the ‘Why’ behind the ways you scare yourself out of action, and focuses on dismantling the distorted self-concepts, beliefs, and patterns that have been with you since childhood and are now making your life and your business feel like you’re sprinting uphil with rollerblades on.
These are patterns that make you hide, overwork, people-please, postpone, undercharge, hemorrhage money on endless trainings, never ask for support, check out, and second-guess your every move — EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW YOU’RE GREAT AT WHAT YOU DO.
When we clear those layers, the actions that drive your business forward WILL become natural, intuitive, SUSTAINABLE, and scale your business FAST. Yeah, even for you.
I can't know this for sure without knowing you, but if you're like MANY women I know, the reason your business and income haven't scaled the way you want them to has zilch to do with talent, drive, potential, hard work, an amazing product… any of that.
Something else is afoot and it’s stinking up the whole fridge.
And if collecting strategies like they’re Diptyque candles, working yourself to bloodshot capacity day in and day out, and trying to get everything JUUUUUST right hasn’t worked for you. That ain’t it.
I’ll say it as many times as you need to hear it:
The gap between where you are now and where you want to be, STAYS A GAP thanks to patterns that helped you feel safe or accepted in the past but now make you:
Wince at bold and consistent self-promotion
Avoid opportunities to be centre-stage because being “too much” (or leading anyone to think YOU know you’re hot shit) feels like free-diving with Great Whites
Resist support, rest, and ease because it feels so shameful and could make you a target
Over-deliver and undercharge, because a part of you’s afraid that's the only reason you've got clients or customers (and/or learned to believe wanting to be compensated with cold hard cash makes you the devil incarnate)
These are the deep-seated beliefs and behaviours that create an invisible barrier, making it feel like you’re doing all the right things, never moving forward, and leading you to believe the reason MUST be that YOU are not enough.
BA-LO-NEY.
Breaking through the conditioning barrier and bridging that gap is the exact work I'm here to guide you through, and if this is work you’re ready to do, COME TO MAMA cause nobody’s better at this game than I am.
I’m here to help you knock it the eff off negotiating with learned limitations that were NEVER about you and calling it “WORK” instead of doing the things that grow your biz and bank account freely, unapologetically and wholly unburdened.
This work is here to help you establish a new normal where the mindset + actions that move that infamous needle — confident self promotion, hiring and leading a team to support you, charging rates you’re excited about, and so much more — feel safe and natural to you.
That is HANDS DOWN the best insurance you’ll play the long game, not to mention the fastest path to the scalable, thriving business you’ve worked so hard for. This is the shift that changes E-VE-RY-THING.
Now for the nitty gritty.
This one-on-one coaching program’s designed to take you from where you are now
— in the frustrating cycle of trying all the things without your results matching your effort—
to a place where your business reflects what you ACTUALLY signed up for when you first started (one that works like a well-oiled machine, brings you clients you LOVE working with, is supported by a team that has your back, and affords you the freedom, space and moolah to ENJOY your time on Earth) without sacrificing your sanity, integrity, or quality of life.
The answer (as you probably gleaned already) ISN’T more surface-level advice or quick fixes. If it were, you’d be rolling in it already. Am I right?
Instead it's fundamentally shifting the way you approach your business by separating it from all your emotional baggage, worthiness wounds, mommy + daddy issues, and trauma responses so you can see what you need to do clearly, and feel light, neutral, and nimble as you go through with it.
That’s what will BLOW YOUR BUSIENSS UP (in the best of ways).
The deeper places most coaches barely dip a toe into is where I do my best work. I’m not here to give you more things to do, or motivate you with platitudes that make your eyes roll so hard you see your hypothalamus.
I’m here for genuine, gritty, full blown transformation. I’m here to help you re-wire decades of limiting self-concepts, tentative self-worth, false equivalences you’ve taken for granted, and habituated stress responses that scare you into stopping, apologising, and hiding, so everything you already know to do, can finally WORK.
“BUT IS IT ALL INNER WORK? Where does the actual business come in?”
Such a good question! Truth is my work with clients ABSOLUTELY centres the inner work…
AND we’re working on your “inner stuff” IN THE CONTEXT OF YOUR BUSINESS, which means shifting out of entrenched patterns through practical, forward-facing action, in real time, using your business as the arena for transformation that's as deep as it is practical.
Which is SO EXCITING.
With this program, you’re not only working on your business—you’re working through the patterns that have kept you living out reruns of your past across the board AND stop you from experiencing your native ease, power, sovereignty, inherent self-worth, ability to HAVE, and being who you want to be in the world.
You won’t be “preparing” for the success you want “one day;” instead you’ll be leaning into what scales your business NOW, and normalising the state of mind and emotional bandwidth that can sustain it for the long haul.
I mean… just imagine.
You wake up knowing exactly what needs to happen in your business.
As calm and confident that you can make it happen as you are that you can froth that matcha late, no prob.
No more second-guessing each tiny thing, overthinking every decision, or letting “tomorrow” be your favourite time to do the things that need doing.
Instead your business feels like an extension of the healthiest parts of you.
Your calendar reflects a life where work + success align seamlessly with what matters to you: space for work that lights you up, room to breathe, and the time, support, and dingdongs to fully enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Clients and opportunities flow to you because you’ve built a business that serves your peeps AND aligns with your needs.
The energy you used to spend headless-chicken-ing, starting from scratch, or over-delivering now goes to bold moves that feel clear, expansive, exciting, and in harmony with (instead of at the expense of) your nervous system and the inner work you've done.
Profit is steady, growing, and supportive of the lifestyle that feels good to YOU—not a problem area that makes you feel like you’re about to shit a yam when you think of it.
This is what clearing the barriers standing between you and the results you know are possible opens up.
Addressing the deeper patterns that have kept you stuck means:
Freedom to show up with a kind, fiercely self-advocating inner narrative + self concept, not one that undermines your value or projects risk, turmoil, and judgement that aren't really there.
Trust that what feels genuinely GOOD + SUPPORTIVE to YOU is the fastest way to grow your business (because it is, 100% of the time).
Finally releasing the myth that you're supposed to make it all work through perfectionism, doing it all yourself, denying yourself support, people-pleasing, burning yourself out, or any number of distortions that lead absolutely nowhere for no fault of your own —except now you know about this so maybe a little fault of your own if you don’t DO SOMETHING (like get on a call with me and see if this feels like a perfect fit)..
This isn’t wishful thinking. It’s practical, measurable inner work that leads to practical measurable outer results.
When you work with me, you’re building the inner foundation that makes you, your impact, and your business — naturally UNSTOPPABLE.
I’m Mel and I’m so excited you’ve landed here. It’s actually a HUGE deal.
I’ve spent years not only developing and fine-tuning this approach but living it.
This isn’t theory for me—it’s personal.
I’ve faced my own deep, complex conditioning head-on, and broken through barriers that seemed unmovable.
I didn’t just do this once.
I’ve been my own best success story, time and again — refining and mastering a process that actually works and I know how to guide you through like the back of my hand, cause been there, done that, bought the T-shirt, returned it.
I know TOO WELL the frustration of doing all the 'right' things and still not seeing results.
In fact I used to begrudgingly think of myself the classic over-achiever… who couldn’t freaking achieve.
With an IQ of 149, a natural at most things (non-athletic) I try my hand in, having the work ethic of a beaver, and being THE PERSON others have always called when they need something to work well…
when it came to making what I want happen in my life and business, FOR YEARS it was like throwing seeds on cement and praying for a miracle, and I KNOW had it not been for this exact work —I’d still be there.
Today I run a business I LOVE.
The hardest chunks of my life and the CPTSD that came with have helped me shape this incredible methodology.
My newsletter, opt-ins, products and coaching drive emails like:
“Thank you, Melanie! This is EXACTLY what is keeping me from getting my coaching business off the ground!”
“Mel, I just want to thank you. You’re amazing and a big inspiration to me. My story is so similar to your story and your wisdom helps me so much!!
“I can FEEL it working.”
“This feels like PERFECT TIMING.”
“I can’t imagine not having done this, it’s scary how close I came to staying where I was.”
“Melanie’s my breath of fresh air. All this and I feel like my words can only express a fraction of how impressed and grateful I am about this woman.”
I’ve built systems in my business that give me SO MUCH SPACE, steadiness, and predictability in my income (not to mention bring this transformative work to more people who need it).
I have the bandwidth to do A LOT without burning out (podcast, newsletter, coaching, social media, rolling out new products, promoting said products) — it’s a lot easier to do the things when your trauma responses aren’t triggered left and right, go figure.
My day to day is proof that leaning into more ease, support, and self-trust (totally opposite to everything I learned was okay or productive) is what BLOWS UP my results across the board.
Projects, goals, and growth feel and function like simple math.
How it feels to show up for all of it aligns with the inner work I’ve done over decades.
And I’ve never felt less conflicted about enjoying my life and staying true to myself.
PS: Just getting started.
I know exactly what it feels like to push, and push, and PUSH and wonder if you’ll ever break through. If it ever gets easier or gets to work “that well”for YOU.
That’s why I do this work— to help you see it gets to add up for you. That beneath the crud of conditioning you actually ARE expertly equipped to make it happen. That the thriving, supportive, scalable business you want gets to be REAL. And in a way that honours rather than sacrifices your peace, quality of life, or highest values.
This work is my way of making sure you don’t stay in that stuck place, negotiating with your fears and conditioning till you bite the dust. How fucking sad. NO.
OF COURSE I want to help you scale your business AND make a PLENTY of money doing what you love …
After a lifetime dedicated to my own de-conditioning and healing, I KNOW that having a thriving business and ample income on your own terms is what makes it practically possible (especially as a woman) to be at choice, exercise sovereignty in your life, live from the wholeness your healing affords you, and be in unflinching integrity with what’s actually true and good for you, without that costing you safety or wellbeing — cause some person with more power doesn’t like it.
The World needs more women in that position. Period.
But this isn’t only about helping you grow your business—it’s about helping you break free from what’s kept you stuck, for years left and right. This is about your ability to create a life (relationally, spiritually, emotionally, sexually, financially, ALL THE THINGS) that’s wholly true for you, on your terms, in this lifetime. THAT’s what de-conditioning buys you.
And as your coach I’m in this with you, helping you see what you’ve been missing, holding the vision for what you want steady as you move towards it, and helping you step into the version of you you’ve always known was there but didn’t know how to access.
I CARE about how you feel, how you think, and the tangible results you want, like:
The stamina to DO THE THINGS
A schedule that feels regulating to your nervous system
The self worth to hire team that magnifies your biz results
Consistently attracting great-fit clients/customers at premium rates
Serving them from the unconditioned and undiluted version of you (which, not for nothing, is 2.0)
Calmly and unflinchingly promoting what you offer
Creating systems around all of it (so your burnout doesn’t scale as your business does)
Breaking past that 6 figure ceiling so you’re SO WELL RESOURCED you can show up for all of it with a super full cup
And setting yourself up for a long game you can keep winning at (till you bite the dust — this time it’s a happy thought — or decide you’re done).
You've really got this, and I've really got you.
Here’s what you’ll get when we work together:
Deep-dive kick-off call:
We’ll kick things off with a special 90 minute call to set the foundation for our work. This is where you’ll get me up to speed on what you want for your business and how you want to feel, and we’ll identify some the core patterns, beliefs, and conditioning standing in your way, so you can step into the coaching container feeling clear, seen and understood.
6 months of one-on-one coaching via Zoom:
You’ll have me in your corner with two powerful, hour-long sessions each month. This is where we dive deep into where conditioning is creating bottlenecks in your business, doing the deep work to create safety stepping out of those limiting patterns, and getting clear on the aligned, deliberate actions that’ll grow your business in a way that feels good to you. After each session I'll email you with key take-aways from your session, suggested homework, and the audio recording of our time together.
Bonus 2 hr VIP session:
At any point during our six months together, you’ll have access to a bonus 2 hr VIP session where we can go even deeper into your most pressing challenges, desires, ideas, you name it. Use it when you feel ready for that extra push, clarity, or breakthrough. These are so much fun! This longer time together when we’ve already gathered good intel can catalyse tremendous AHAS and integration, and bring on some BIG forward leaps in your business.
Unlimited Voxer support on Fridays:
You’ll have direct access to me through voice and text support every Friday. Whether you’re working through a mindset block, needing feedback on a decision, or just looking for extra guidance, I’m here to answer and support you as you work through the deeper layers and take aligned action in your business.
Email support during business hours:
Need additional guidance or clarity between sessions? Also here for it! You’ll have email access to me Monday through Friday during business hours (Italy time) so that you’re never left figuring things out on your own.
The Investment:
Unfurled is $12,000 upfront or six monthly payments of $2,000.
Still not sure it’s for you?
This ISN’T a cookie-cutter program/one-size-fits-all solution. What makes coaching with me different is how personal, experience based, and actionable it is, and how deep into this I’ve gone myself.
You’re working with someone SEASONED in this work when you come to me.
I have deep roots in this. I can navigate the terrain like few others can because I’ve SUPER done the work over decades. This is my life. Think Bruce Lee meets Rain Man. This is how my brain works, the language I dream in, and I can get you places you wouldn’t BE-LIEVE.
I won’t just give you checklists and strategies, or pump you with abstract, pie-in-the-sky platitudes on healing or how precious you are. I’m here to see you—really see you—and help you unravel what’s been holding you back, body AND mind, so the business, income, and LIFE you want stop feeling like something to chase and become your new home-base.
I’m also NOT here to give you another excuse to procrastinate on taking actions that convert. We’re not doing the inner work so we can take steps “later when you’re healed and perfect and have it all figured out.” No. We’re doing the inner work and stepping, in real time, to grow and scale what you’ve already built starting NOW.
I invest in my clients fully. I’m here, side by side with you, laser-focused on your unique needs, the work you want to do in the world, the money you want to make, and your life as you want to live it. We’re not working through generic frameworks. We’re working through YOU—your individual conditioning, your potential, your goals + desires, and your specific journey. This isn’t only about achieving results, but about creating a profound inner shift that makes those results sustainable, personal, and aligned with what you want for yourself, from here on out.
Yes it’s doable.
Yes I’m that good at my job.
You want MORE.
Now’s your chance to do something real about it.
This is where you stop wanting the shiny results you see others getting —like Oliver Twist looking into a bakery window — and start creating your own.
I know how hard it’s been to try and get there. Truth is, when conditioning’s running the show, it really does feel like it would take an effing miracle to make 6 figures with your business (let alone 7).
It happening in the forseable future, AND feel good in the process, AND have the time to live your life while you’re at it? Nice but not bloody likely.
But when we dismantle your You Know What (starts with a C), those results stop feeling impossible and instead, become second nature. An extension of how you show up.
I want you to have a business that’s SUPPORTIVE of what you want, that grows with you, that gives you the freedom and security you’ve been craving.
I want you to have the inner ecology that makes that kind of result a matter OF COURSE.
My support will get you there.
This is my thing, my life’s work, and if we’re a good fit, your life will be transformed, and you’ll have an ally in your corner who wants for you what you want for yourself and knows how to unlock it in you like no one else in the biz.
Together we won’t just change your business; we’ll shift the trajectory of your life by pulling the veil of fear-based conditioning and stepping into your empowered and capable present.
If you’re ready to make that shift, This is your moment, I’m here to back you up and can't wait to see you blow your own mind.
This is your cue. Where things start to flow. Where what once felt like a struggle becomes simple, breathable, and sustainable and your business begins to do what it’s supposed to: support the life you WANT to live.
But not if you don’t make a move and NOW’s the time babe. Jump.
