Hey you!

I’m Melanie Wilder and The BODY Cure is my life’s work.

FYI: Being the BIGGEST hodgepodge I’ve ever met, cold intros (just like this one) give me cold sweats

Now that’s out of the way…

This didn’t start as a way to help women grow their businesses. It began as a deeply personal journey—my way of freeing myself from intense, debilitating developmental cptsd.

On one hand I had big goals I had a bitch of a time reaching no matter how hard I worked, or dedicated I was. On the other there was how I felt around the clock — anxiety through the roof, self-worth bellow zero, fear like something was about to jump out of the bushes to grab me, and a growing feeling of desperation at not knowing what to do to fix it and realising time was passing me by.

That was the story of my life, and while deep down I had a strong hunch I had the goods to back up my ambition, it was like living under a chainlink blanket. SO HEAVY it was hard to barely squeak out a semblance of a life.

It took decades of DEVOTIONAL inner work, estranging from most of my nuclear family, and the support of some of the best coaches and therapists out there (not suggesting you go for the “decades” plan, in fact wanna save time? Head to the “work with Mel” section) but de-conditioning work? It lifted that blanket and allowed me to uncoil into who I am — as in not just a bundle of trauma responses.

I created this body of work as I went along, and it gave me back my access to life, which unlocked everything else that’s good, abundant, successful and healthy in my life today, including this glorious business that helps hundreds of women do the same thing. NOTHING beats this approach to personal development, nothing clears a path to creating incredible success with assets you already have, and I shall preach it from the rooftops till I drop dead.

Now for the broad strokes:

Childhood in South America, seasoned in New York (20 years in Brooklyn✌🏽), BFA from Parsons in 2008 (yikes), art studio in Bushwick for10 years, fluent in three languages (Spanish, English, Italian), fascinated with sharks (and other things that scare me shitless), business owner and (officially) a coach since 2018, current resident of a XIII century ex-convent on a hilltop surrounded by olive groves on the outskirts of Florence with my two dogs aka the the black pickles.

Life-salad aside, one thing about me that has never wavered is this:

95% of my brain power is dearly devoted to deciphering the patterns that keep you stuck in loops of more of the same stuff you DON’T want, and helping you demystify them so your future doesn’t look like an extension of your past, but an expression of YOUR truth, true potential, and core desires.

This is literally how I’m built.

👉🏽 My prefrontal cortex is A BEAST

👉🏽My adaptation to severe complex childhood trauma was behaviour anticipation, problem solving, and relentless Hope.

👉🏽And nothing feels safer to me than a world teaming with deeply fulfilled, self aware, loaded powerhouse women.

Mix it all together, bake for 40 years, and voila!

Solving people puzzles and championing fulfilment (beginning with my own but my track record is pretty phenomenal — toot toot) is my savantish superpower and I'm not the only one tootin' that horn👇🏽

"How could I not have seen this?!" Is what I keep feeling. I'm excited for what living this way will bring me. Thank you, Melanie!" Viv L

"Not for the faint of heart. If you're not willing to look at your own stuff and poke holes in your stories of why things haven't worked out the way you wanted, then save your money."
Sharon L (BLESS and... WORD.)

"I've felt a massive unburdening in the past few months, and released so much of my need to control others' experiences so I wouldn't be uncomfortable." Andy G

"Mel, I just want to thank you. You’re amazing and a big inspiration to me. My story is so similar to yours and your wisdom helps me so much!! I will listen over and over. It’s the solution to exactly what ails me and has been holding my business back!" E M

"Goodness, I am just so happy to have found you. I have felt very close to the cusp of some big things happening in my work and I just haven't seemed to get over the hump. I think this work you've helped me explore is going to help me finally relax into my success and I've already counted out to where 6 months from now will be. I'm quite sure I'll be sending you another note saying again, I am, and will be, forever grateful." H S

Since you landed here, my guess is you have an inkling that emotional baggage you’ve carried for "a while" is in the way of you creating more of what you want and FULLY enjoying what you already have, specifically when it comes to your business and the money it brings in.

I'm here to confirm that inkling is DEAD ON, and asking yourself *these* kinds of questions will open up a new dimension to your life, business, relationship with money and the results you’re able to create across the board that'll blow your damn mind.

TRULY, when the ways your past conditioned you to self limit in exchange for an obsolete definition of love and safety STOP calling the shots in your life (and your biz), shit starts moving FAST and life opens up wide for you.

That’s the thread we’ll be pulling on together, and I promise if you stick with me and keep pulling till what’s underneath shines through, you’ll find things that used to feel hard, heavy, or confusing about your business (and other parts of your life) will begin to click, and growing it to 6+ figures (and beyond) in a way that feels really good will get mother.effin.normal.

Ready to see what this puppy can do?

Sometimes being face-to-face with the opportunity to love myself THAT much is super challenging, but Melanie’s unflinching presence and care-FULL guidance coupled with a space that is imbued by her charisma and gentle power makes me see, remind, and believe in what I’m doing all the way through. It’s evident that Melanie has done a ton of her own soul work, and has been flying a powerful journey herself, to be able to be the coach she is today. I’m so grateful to have someone in my life that is such a cheerleader and fire for my dreams, my body, my love, and my life. Melanie is my breath of fresh air. All this, and I feel like my words can only express a fraction of how impressed and grateful I am about this woman.

Carol B
"Working with Mel has been waking up, she always brings me back to what is, and it’s astonishing to me to realise how much of what held me back was an unconscious choice and how I was always looking for what wasn’t here to save me. I can’t imagine not having done this. It’s scary how close I came to staying where I was. This has been the most important investment I’ve ever made."

Norah Z
"How could I not have seen this?! Is what I keep feeling. I’m excited for what living in this way will bring me. Thank you, Melanie."

Viv L
"Not for the faint of heart. That’s the first thing to say about this work. If you’re not willing to look at your own stuff and poke holes in your stories of why things haven’t worked out the way you wanted them to, then save your money."

Sharon L
"You know what I found? This work makes it really easy to see where I’m adding to what I think the problem is and to see an alternative that’s present and honors what’s really true for me right then and there. When I let it be that easy (I’m still learning) my experience of it changes, but that has completely changed how my situation plays out and my relationships with everyone. I’ve felt a massive unburdening in the past few months, and I’ve also released so much of the absurd need to control other people’s experiences so I wouldn’t be uncomfortable. "

Andy G
"Melanie is so intuitive and tuned in to her inner wisdom that everything we worked on resonated deeply with my needs. She has been a deep inspiration and a source of support and love in and outside her sessions. I have for her a deep sense of admiration and gratitude, and strongly recommend working with her to those that wish to go beyond what they consider possible."

Sasha C
"I can’t find a better word to describe my experience working with Melanie than Extraordinary. There’s something beyond the linear understanding and unfolding of every session, a depth that can only be measured against the depth you’ve gone to within yourself before."

Julie S
"Every session with her was a break through for me. She has a natural talent for holding her clients with gentleness, ease and exquisite nurturing care that I have never experienced with anyone else. I can’t recommend her enough as your guide on your journey. Melanie is Magic!"

Iryna S
"Melanie is an absolute pleasure to interact with. Spending time with her I have felt both safely held in her warm compassion and gently challenged to rise up into my highest self. She combines her creativity, intelligence and warmth in a special configuration of compassionate truth. I would highly recommend taking the opportunity to meet and work with her."

Adriene C

Hey you!

I’m Melanie Wilder and The BODY Cure is my life’s work.

"How could I not have seen this?! Is what I keep feeling. I’m excited for what living in this way will bring me. Thank you, Melanie."

"Not for the faint of heart. That’s the first thing to say about this work. If you’re not willing to look at your own stuff and poke holes in your stories of why things haven’t worked out the way you wanted them to, then save your money."

"I can’t find a better word to describe my experience working with Melanie than Extraordinary. There’s something beyond the linear understanding and unfolding of every session, a depth that can only be measured against the depth you’ve gone to within yourself before."

"Every session with her was a break through for me. She has a natural talent for holding her clients with gentleness, ease and exquisite nurturing care that I have never experienced with anyone else. I can’t recommend her enough as your guide on your journey. Melanie is Magic!"